Sometimes it feels as though knocking on our bedroom doors, are our unwelcome friends ‘judgement’ and ‘failure’. There seems to be a inextricable, yet inaccurate relationship between sex/love, and the fear of failure.
You have no doubt heard the all too familiar tall tales;
No orgasm? = You failed sex
Can’t get it up? = You failed manhood
Divorce? = You failed marriage
We have become obsessed with squeezing our relationships between the narrowest of parameters. Parameters that dictate ‘goals’ that aren’t actual requirements for pleasure, nor happiness.Read More