Posts tagged love
Here’s How To Renovate Your Relationship With Your Pleasure

Living a pleasure filled life will not corrupt you.

And again, so it sinks in before you keep on scrolling...

Living a pleasure filled life will not corrupt you.

But I reeaaaally understand why you think it could...

“Over-indulgence”
“Self-gratification”
“Hedonism”

The church taught us that it was sinful to seek pleasure; and our language around pleasure is still permeated with negative associations.

If you are like most folks, pursuits of pleasure that extend past the constraints of your ‘pleasure comfort zone’ triggers inner conditioning around selfishness & immorality.

We are a society that is afraid of pleasure.

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REFRAMING FAILURE

Sometimes it feels as though knocking on our bedroom doors, are our unwelcome friends ‘judgement’ and ‘failure’. There seems to be a inextricable, yet inaccurate relationship between sex/love, and the fear of failure. 

You have no doubt heard the all too familiar tall tales; 

No orgasm? = You failed sex

Can’t get it up? = You failed manhood

Divorce? = You failed marriage

We have become obsessed with squeezing our relationships between the narrowest of parameters. Parameters that dictate ‘goals’ that aren’t actual requirements for pleasure, nor happiness. 

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